- Leaning forward
- Eye contact
- Smile
- “Yes,” “Uh-huh”
How many times do we talk to our loved one from across the room, our minds busy with the schedule of the day? Is it any wonder that they haven’t heard us?
We connect when we:
- Stop what you are doing,
- Look at your loved one in the eyes
Listening
Taking time to give the gift of understanding is a selfless act of kindness. Listening is a powerful way to connect with others. Follow this link to learn more: https://lauriemoffatt.net/listening/.
Holding Arms
We show power, closed minded and impatience when we hold our arms:
- Crossed in front of our body
- Hands on hips
Relaxed arms that are not folded shows interest and openness.
What Are You Really Saying?
Our body shows what we are really saying. Asking your loved one what they want for breakfast with our hands on hips shows that you don’t have time. Maybe asking for cold cereal is the best response!
As your loved one gets older, they may not always be able to understand everything that you say. They will understand your body language. Show that you care by leaning forward with a smile!
