Why me? These problems have occurred to me. Why? There is an injustice in life that is unexplained.
Your loved one has this disease now. Accept. Nothing can be done to change the past. It is best to reconcile with that emotion. Coping with that injustice is challenging.
Your loved one has changed in their ability to care for themselves independently. Their:
- thinking is no longer the same.
- memory is poor, especially for details of the recent past.
Thinking Skills Vary
Sometimes it is worse than at other times. Greater confusion at night and in new situations is common. There are others like you, in your position. It is helpful to find a support group in your area.
Great ideas come from sharing with others who are in a similar situation. You may experience more acceptance. Helpful tips and ideas flow from those who are in the same place as you. Know that you are not alone during these difficult times.
Give ease and warmth to those around you, who are in your position. Feeling greater peace with this process of debilitation will help immensely.
Resources to Support Groups
Here are resources to support groups in your area: